if so please tell me:
What u might change if u could before their death
How u have been doing since their passing
Your age at the time of their death and your age now
What you have been doing to move on get thru it
what u felt when u first found out they were gone and what u continue to feel now.
Your gender (my wife think its harder on women)
I am asking this because my best friend and my wife just recently (about 5 months ago)lost her mother(they were very close) at the age of 23 she is having a very hard time i have been watching her in pain and have felt helpless Well the questions i am asking are the ones that she is having the toughest time with so i am looking to get a little info that she might be able to relate to and not feel so lonely The age limit has to do with her and her sisters ages so they that it will be more relatable to them.
Please only SERIOUS ans. from ppl (between the ages of 21-30) that have ACTUALLY had to deal with their own parents death
thank
Have you lost your very close parents to death when u were between the ages of 21-30?
For one i'm sorry for her loss. I lost my mother when i was 20.I wish i would of spent more time with her. i really loved my mother so i miss her more then ever. I'm 45 years old now this might sound wierd but if she has a picture of her mother take it out and sit with her and talk about the good times they had together.it does work or it does for me.and i still do that to this day. Yes i think it's hearder for women to lose there mother because mothers mean everything to there little girls.And i also lost my father then i was 18.losing your parents is a very hard thing. It sounds like you're doing everything you can just keep being there for her and let her know now much you love her. I hope this helped you. good luck.
