How would you feel if your significant other used to be the same gender but changed into the opposite gender? How would you feel about your significant other then? and what would you do to him or her?
How would you feel if your significant other is?
If my significant other use to be a girl and she is now a man and i just found out....
1. I would be a bit freaked, confused.
2. i would still love the person
3. But... I would not stay with the person. I really want children. I mean if you were a girl and now a guy you dont have the opposite reproductive parts i need. I dont want to adopt or have some random sperm in me. I want to marry the man of my children. Having my own children is something i really want. Its non-negotiable.
How would you feel if your significant other is?
I certainly would NOT feel I was w/the SAME person I first fell in love with...NO WAY. %26quot;It%26quot; would be a whole different person, %26amp; for SURE NOT the same one I had originally %26quot;committed%26quot; to. I would NOT feel at all being comfortable w/them anymore as it just would not be the same person. I would end the relationship, no two ways about it...:)
They'd still be the same person inside, as long as they had womens parts I'd be okay with it really.
I'd be out. First of all that's something you should mention right away. Second of all it changes everything. They lied about who they are/were. I don't like liars.
Plus that's just gross.
It is not something I could support.
I know you are not just now finding out? are you asking now because someone else found out and said something to you now you feel guilty? you been with them this long, so why change it?
I would leave! that person obviously has more problems that the obvious!
I know several people who have transitioned and they are the same on the inside (with the exception of some affects of testosterone for a while). However, my feeling would be that if they didn't tell me up front that they weren't open and honest with me. I would have a serious trust problem with that.
I'd pack up my stuff and make sure I changed my phone number and email and any other way for them to contact me.
